A lot of ministries begin with a bang, then explode with new growth. But after the initial growth, they plateau. It happens with women’s ministries, men’s ministries, small-group ministries, children’s, singles’, on and on – that they have an initial growth spurt, then stop.
God doesn’t want our ministries to stagnate. Not only does he want them to succeed, but he also wants us to succeed as ministry leaders. To help us achieve this goal, God has given us examples of errors to avoid – seven common traps of leadership – that Satan is most likely to use to keep your ministry from becoming all that God wants it to be.
1. You stop growing.
Whenever you find yourself resisting a new way of doing something, defending the status quo, or opposing a change that God has told you to make, watch out – you’re about to lose your place of leadership.
What’s the key to overcoming this leadership trap? You’ve got to continue to grow. Continue developing your skills, your character, your perspective, your vision, your heart for God, and your dependence upon him. Never stop learning. Read books and magazines, read and re-read the Bible, fellowship with other Christians, listen to tapes, and attend seminars.
2. You stop caring.
The leader who stops having a passion for ministry won’t last long. This is one of the subtlest traps in ministry – you go through the motions of serving the Lord because you know it’s the right thing to do, but your heart is not in it. That’s no way to serve God.
If you’ve found yourself in this trap, there’s hope. Just as when you want to restore love in a marriage, you do the things you did in the beginning. In other words, start acting the way you used to act when you were first in love. Even if you don’t feel passionate, act passionate. It’s easier to act your way into a feeling than it is to feel your way into an action. If you act loving, those feelings will come back. So, do the things that originally brought you joy in ministry.
3. You stop listening.
Learn to listen and be sensitive to others. Encourage the people you serve in ministry to talk to you. Let them tell you about their problems, their troubles, their fears, their aspirations, their dreams, and their hurts. Be open to suggestions and constructive criticism and look for other perspectives.
4. You get distracted.
Many things can distract you from ministry. Personal or health problems can distract you. Competing interests can distract you. Finances can distract you. Things that you think are fun and good and wonderful can distract you. Satan doesn’t care if you aren’t sinning while distracted, because as long as you’re distracted, you aren’t doing what God wants you to do.
But God wants us to stay focused. Never forget your mission. The Bible says, “No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.” (Luke 9:62 KJV) Stay focused. Don’t get distracted.
5. You get complacent.
Complacency is the enemy of a good leader. If God says go for it, stick your neck out! Never stop depending on the Lord. Stop coasting. Take some risks in faith. Push the envelope. Attempt something that cannot be explained in the power of the flesh. Say to yourself, “What am I going to try in my ministry this next year that I know is bound to fail unless God shows up?” Unless God is your only safety net, you’re not truly living by faith. Depend on the Lord.
6. You become arrogant.
When a leader becomes arrogant, it leads to ruin. When you think that everything depends on you, when you don’t think you need the Lord’s help in your ministry because you’ve got it all together, watch out.
7. You fail to delegate.
When a ministry plateaus, God is telling you that you’ve reached the limit of what he’s empowered you to do by yourself. You need to move from doing to delegating.
Involve other people in your ministry. Move from being a minister to a manager of ministers. Managing is a ministry in itself. D. L. Moody said it like this, “I’d rather put 10 men to work than do the work of 10 men.”
If you avoid these seven traps, you’ll go a long way towards building a ministry that lasts.
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Sunday, January 27, 2008
The Little Things Make a Difference
The title says it all.......so here are a few questions for all of us:
1. Do you do what you say you will do?
2. Do people trust you?
3. Do you follow through on your commitments?
4. Do you justify your behavior?
5. Do you blame others and circumstances for your lack of integrity?
6. Do you have hidden sin in your life?
7. Do you deceive people?
8. Do you lie to people?
9. Are you dependable?
There are no shortcuts when it comes to having and maintaining integrity. Either you are building your life on the firm rock of integrity or you are building your life on a very slippery slope. The little things make the difference!
1. Do you do what you say you will do?
2. Do people trust you?
3. Do you follow through on your commitments?
4. Do you justify your behavior?
5. Do you blame others and circumstances for your lack of integrity?
6. Do you have hidden sin in your life?
7. Do you deceive people?
8. Do you lie to people?
9. Are you dependable?
There are no shortcuts when it comes to having and maintaining integrity. Either you are building your life on the firm rock of integrity or you are building your life on a very slippery slope. The little things make the difference!
Friday, January 18, 2008
7 Joy Killers in Ministry
One of the most powerful things a Christian (or any human being for that matter) has is JOY…
Scripture says in Nehemiah 8:10 that the joy of the Lord is our strength.
Yet there are many things that seem to rob us of the joy we have in the Lord - especially for those involved in ministry. Here are seven joy killers.......
#1 - Comparison - If you compare yourself to other ministries or other churches then you will always be in some sort of depressed mode–there is always someone else out there who is seemingly growing faster or being more creative. Compare yourself ONLY to the vision God gave you.
#2 - Critics - If you hyper focus on them they can seem larger than the world…my advice, don’t swim with the sharks, don’t eat yellow snow and don’t listen to people who don’t love you and desire nothing more than to tear you down!
#3 - Being Busy - There are so many people in ministry leadership who feel like all they do is spin plates…and that one day things “will just get better.” To make matters worse–we now have devices that we carry that make sure our schedule is always in front of us AND that we are always accessible.
#4 - Pride - Daniel 4:37 is so true! Trust me, I know! Anytime I’ve ever thought, “Dang I’m good,” God always brings me down a level…OR FOUR!
#5 - Loss of Perspective - Whenever I think that I am more concerned about the church and ministry than Jesus it always causes stress and anxiety, which negates joy! Remember–it is HIS church and HIS ministry!
#6 - Lack of Faith - Whenever I desire comfort more than obedience I always know that something is not right! Hebrews 11:6 is SO true!
#7 - No Growth - Whenever I stop reading, listening to other teachers and don’t network with other leaders I both feel alone AND I rob OAG of the collective wisdom of other people who are much wiser than me. When I feel the pressure of having to come up with every new idea–it ALWAYS robs me of joy!
So.....the answer?
1 - Keep focused on God and the vision He has given you for OAG and your minstry.
2 - Keep your nose in the Bible and your heart toward heaven.
3 - Grow, grow and grow. Challenge yourself and refuse to become stagnant and sit still.
Scripture says in Nehemiah 8:10 that the joy of the Lord is our strength.
Yet there are many things that seem to rob us of the joy we have in the Lord - especially for those involved in ministry. Here are seven joy killers.......
#1 - Comparison - If you compare yourself to other ministries or other churches then you will always be in some sort of depressed mode–there is always someone else out there who is seemingly growing faster or being more creative. Compare yourself ONLY to the vision God gave you.
#2 - Critics - If you hyper focus on them they can seem larger than the world…my advice, don’t swim with the sharks, don’t eat yellow snow and don’t listen to people who don’t love you and desire nothing more than to tear you down!
#3 - Being Busy - There are so many people in ministry leadership who feel like all they do is spin plates…and that one day things “will just get better.” To make matters worse–we now have devices that we carry that make sure our schedule is always in front of us AND that we are always accessible.
#4 - Pride - Daniel 4:37 is so true! Trust me, I know! Anytime I’ve ever thought, “Dang I’m good,” God always brings me down a level…OR FOUR!
#5 - Loss of Perspective - Whenever I think that I am more concerned about the church and ministry than Jesus it always causes stress and anxiety, which negates joy! Remember–it is HIS church and HIS ministry!
#6 - Lack of Faith - Whenever I desire comfort more than obedience I always know that something is not right! Hebrews 11:6 is SO true!
#7 - No Growth - Whenever I stop reading, listening to other teachers and don’t network with other leaders I both feel alone AND I rob OAG of the collective wisdom of other people who are much wiser than me. When I feel the pressure of having to come up with every new idea–it ALWAYS robs me of joy!
So.....the answer?
1 - Keep focused on God and the vision He has given you for OAG and your minstry.
2 - Keep your nose in the Bible and your heart toward heaven.
3 - Grow, grow and grow. Challenge yourself and refuse to become stagnant and sit still.
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